Newsletter: Cure for Negative Thoughts

Published: Mon, 08/21/17

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Negative Thoughts (Suspicions)
Some assumptions are not permissible, such as holding a bad opinion about someone who manifests righteous behaviour. This means that your heart is convinced and you have judged him based on your heart's suspicions without proof that warrants such an assumption. There is nothing wrong with having doubts about someone or having a bad opinion of him, if it is based on sound reasoning and is not baseless.

Imam Mawlūd speaks of something that is very easy to have but is harmful to brotherhood and injurious to one's own spiritual growth. It is having a bad opinion about others, baseless assumptions, and suspicion (zann). This is allowing presumption into one's heart without having any facts, which is especially harmful when one harbours a bad opinion about people who are outwardly righteous in appearance. Scholars have advised that one should even beware of forming conclusions based on the bad appearance of people, for it could be that God veiled their goodness from others. 

The Arabs traditionally were keen on having the ability to see a person's inner goodness. Once an Arab man came to the Prophet (SAW) to see who he was. When the man left, some men asked him about his opinion of the Prophet (SAW), and he said, "His face is not the face of a liar." This firāsah is, again, having the intuitive ability to see in people signs of goodness or evil. The Prophet (SAW) had this ability to the utmost degree and said that believers too possess it, but to a lesser extent. Sidi Ahmad Zarrūq said that every believer has the power of firāsah to varying degrees, based on the strength of their faith.

Backbiting of the Heart
However, having a bad opinion of someone without cause is considered a malady of the heart: "O you who believe, avoid suspicion, for some suspicion is sinful." - Quran, 49:12.  Often associated with this disease is backbiting (ghībah), which is speaking ill of another person behind their backs. It is possible to backbite in an unspoken form, which is when a person has unfounded negative thoughts against another. Suspicion in the heart that affects one's thoughts and opinion is considered backbiting of the heart (ghībat al-qalb). This is also not permissible. The Prophet (SAW) said, "Beware of a bad opinion, for it is the most false of speech." If someone says to you that a given person is bad, ask for proof. Without proof, it is tantamount to a lie. The sacred law of Islam (shariah) is based on proof and not conjecture. 

Imam Mawlūd says next that having doubts about someone's character is not forbidden if it is based on reason and observable evidence. This is different from suspicion that tends to be judgmental and, oftentimes, false. God says, "O you who believe, if an ungodly person brings you some news, then seek out its veracity." - Quran, 49:6. If someone known to openly indulge in major sins comes with some news, one should not accept it without caution. 

Sidi Ahmad Zarrūq gave good advice centuries ago that still remains relevant: "Do not trust anyone with matters related to your religion, your family, or your wealth until you have tested him at least a thousand times." According to this advice, one should test someone's sincerity and trustworthiness before entrusting him with anything significant. If there is much corruption in a given generation, it is best to be wary of people until their goodness becomes apparent. This is the advice of scholars.

Have a Good Opinion of God
Having doubts about people is different from decidedly judging them negatively. Forming a bad opinion in the presence of ample evidence is common sense. However, when people repent, they should not have their past held against them. If someone has sincerely repented, we should encourage them and make dua'a for them, and also support them in doing more good deeds. A hadith says, "There are two things no believer has been given anything better than: a good opinion of God and a good opinion of the servants of God."

According to sacred law, people are innocent until proven guilty. This relates to having a good opinion of God. A hadith sates that God says "I am in the opinion of My servant. If he thinks well of Me, he finds good, and if he thinks ill of Me, he finds evil." Another hadith states, "If [someone] finds good, let him thank God, and whoever finds other than that, let him blame only his own soul." The Prophet (SAW) also said that the affair of believers is all good, even if something unpleasant occurs, there is good in it.

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Source: Purification of the Heart by Hamza Yusuf

Qurban 1438H / 2017


Insyallah this will be our 5th year performing the Qurban for our community.

“Their meat will not reach Allah, nor will their blood, but what reaches Him is piety from you. Thus have We subjected them to you that you may glorify Allah for that [to] which He has guided you; and give good tidings to the doers of good.” - Surah Al Haj, Verse 37

Various Hadiths mentioning the rewards of Qurban:
  • The rewards of the qurban are tremendous. In one hadith, Zaid bin Arqam (R) reports that the companions of the Prophet, peace be upon him, asked him: “Ya Rasulallah, what is this sacrifice?” He said: “It is the way of your forefather Ibrahim.”They asked: “What is for us therein?” He replied: “There is a reward for every hair.”They asked: “For the wool, Ya Rasulullah?” He replied: “There is one reward for every strand of wool.” - Ahmad; Ibn Majah

  • While in another hadith, the Prophet, peace be upon him, said “The son of Adam does not do any action on the day of sacrifice (Eid ul Adha) which is more pleasing to Allah than the sacrifice of animals; the animal will come on the Day of Resurrection with its hair, horns and hooves (for reward). The blood certainly reaches Allah before it falls to the ground. So make yourselves purified therewith - Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah
This year, you have the choice to do Qurban with us from 7 countries: 
  • Indonesia
  • Malaysia
  • Australia
  • India
  • Sri Lanka
  • Cambodia
  • Vietnam

How To: Order Qurban Online | Qurban.sg

 
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INFAQ: Project Goodwill 2017


In Singapore we are fortunate to have food on the table however this may not be the same elsewhere for families in Cambodia. While we consume much food here, there are 1000 families in 21 villages in Cambodia who needs help.

In this project goodwill, you will have the opportunity to sponsor the poor families in Cambodia for their daily necessities. The following package can last for one month:

Infaq $73

1. Rice - 20kg
2. Raw Sugar - 2kg
3. Condensed Milk - 5 cans
4. Syrup - 1 Bottle
5. Cooking Oil - 1 liter
6. Can Sardine Ikan - 12 cans

The provision above can last one family a month. Depending on the size of the family. Some may need 2 packages.

This project is organized by Ikhwan Services. Marketing and administration by ISGN Ventures Pte Ltd.

Initially distribution for this project was meant to be done during Ramadan and Shawal, but due to insufficient contributions, we have extended the closing date until Eid Al-Adha. The team in Cambodia will distribute the provisions on the following dates: 1 & 2 September 2017.

Closing date: 24 August 2017
 
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INFAQ: Free Food Friday


Free Food For All (FFFA) has a mission to prepare and serve 1,000 meals every Friday, which will be distributed at Sultan Mosque and Hj Mohd Salleh Mosque. The meals are meant for everyone and served on a first come first serve basis. FFFA believes that these are the times where harmony and peace among our brethren in humanity needs to be encouraged and supported. What better way to spread love and kindness then to FEED.

Free Food For All is a registered charity (UEN: 201503391Z) with a mission to promote and propagate a kind and caring Community by providing free halal food to the less fortunate, regardless of race or religion. From their inception till date, they are close to providing 200,000 meals to the Community.

Wish to contribute to this cause? You may make sponsorships in multiple of $25, $50, $100 and $1000.

Closing date: 31 December 2017
 
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INFAQ: Infaq Mutton ( All year round )


Mission: To support mosques and muslim organisations to provide halal mutton for their events / majlis. 

Throughout the year we have had requests from various organisations for sponsorship of mutton and often we have to reject them because we could only raise funds only during certain periods like Ramadan, or when we have Aqiqah Australia projects where we could bring in the mutton from Australia. 

To make this effort more sustainable and for us to be able to respond to requests, we have decided to run this project all year around. 

This would also provide avenues for the community to continue supporting various events throughout the year. 

For Infaq Mutton ( All year round ), we will only raise funds for Frozen Mutton, as it is easier to acquire and cheaper to purchase compared to Fresh Meat. 

You may sponsor the following:

1kg - $18
2kg - $35 
5kg - $85 
10kg - $165
18kg - $295
36kg - $580
50kg - $780
100kg - $1500
200kg - $2800 

Prices above will include Butchers cuts and delivery to beneficiaries. Banking and transactions fees are also included. 

Closing date: 31 December 2017
 
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September 2017

Systemic Quranic Arabic
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Teknik Cordobana: Baca Al-Qur'an dalam 3 Hari!
Fri, 8 Sep 2017 | Madrasah Aljunied | Malay | 459 views

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sat, 9 Sep 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 63 views

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sun, 10 Sep 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 48 views

Tajweed
Mon, 11 Sep 2017, 8 - 9.30pm | 20 Joo Chiat Road | English | 72 views

Humanitarian FZ Ekspedisi
Fri, 15 Sep 2017, 2pm | Batam | English | 44 views

Perfect Partners
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2-Day GCE O Level Exam Revision Workshop 2017
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International Stepfamily Day! (Meraihkan Hari Keluarga Tiri!)
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COURSE: Introduction to Islam & Its Guiding Principles
Sun, 17 Sep 2017, 5.00pm - 7.00pm | Mydin Mosque | English | 106 views

Fast Track 1-Day Marriage Guidance Course by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar
Sun, 24 Sep 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 39 views
October 2017

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sat, 14 Oct 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 39 views

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sun, 15 Oct 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 40 views

Fast Track 1-Day Marriage Guidance Course by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar
Sun, 22 Oct 2017, 9.15am to 5.30pm | 16 Arumugam Rd, #06-01 Lion Bldg D, Singapore 409961 | English | 515 views
November 2017

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sat, 4 Nov 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 39 views

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sun, 5 Nov 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 36 views

Fast Track 1-Day Marriage Guidance Course by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar
Sun, 12 Nov 2017, 9.15am to 5.30pm | 16 Arumugam Rd, #06-01 Lion Bldg D, Singapore 409961 | English | 481 views
December 2017

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sat, 2 Dec 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 36 views

Marriage Preparation Course Cinta Abadi by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar (PROWISE Consultancy)
Sun, 3 Dec 2017, 9.30am - 5.00pm | 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967 | English | 38 views

Fast Track 1-Day Marriage Guidance Course by Relationship Coach Rasimah Jar
Sun, 10 Dec 2017, 9.15am to 5.30pm | 16 Arumugam Rd, #06-01 Lion Bldg D, Singapore 409961 | English | 532 views

CONTEMPORARY TAFSIR WITH UST DR HANIFF HASSAN
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